Dangerous Paths: A Helpful Guide for Avoiding Online Sexual Temptation
There are seasons when we find ourselves with extra time on our hands. For some, this time is cherished with reading, outdoor activities, quality time with people, and other things that bring joy. For others, too much extra time brings temptation. When given time to yourself, it seems the first thing your mind goes to is online sexual temptation. After some time, your boredom intensifies, and you believe the only thing that will satisfy your extra time will be pornography.
To be clear, pornography isn’t just a battle men face. It is a shared struggle between genders that misrepresents love and gives false expectations of how (future) spouses operate toward each other. Pornography promotes self-love where Scripture preaches selfless love.
Throughout Scripture we are given many illustrations that describe our lives and how we operate. When it comes to sexual temptation, Scripture gives us an illustration of a young man going down a dangerous path. The path is dangerous not because of the terrain it is on, but because of why we go down it and where it leads to.
Proverbs 5:1-6 teaches us:“My son, be attentive to my wisdom; incline your ear to my understanding, that you may keep discretion, and your lips may guard knowledge. For the lips of a forbidden woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil, but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps follow the path to Sheol; she does not ponder the path of life; her ways wander, and she does not know it.”
The pinnacle of teaching on dangerous paths is the book of Proverbs. Proverbs teaches us that every decision we make in life has two paths: one leading to life and the other leading to death. Proverbs gives us an overarching principle for every path you find yourself on, which is this: You can choose the path, but you don’t get to choose the destination. When you find yourself in tempting situations, you can either choose the path that leads to life, which is pursuing the Lord, or a path that leads to death, which slowly pulls you away from God.
Why is this principle important in light of online sexual temptation? How does this address why we go down this path? And where does online sexual temptation find its end? Proverbs 5:1-6 teaches us three principles of the dangerous path of online sexual temptation.
How do we avoid these three dangerous paths?
COVID-19 will bring a lot of time to be alone. In order to avoid dangerous paths of sexual temptation online you have to be prepared for it. Through Christ he promises victory over sexual temptation and liberty from paths that lead to death. Remember, you can choose the path, but you cannot choose the destination. Let us be people who chose the path of life, not the path of death.